There are several causes of sexual dysfunction in men, the many symptoms of which include lack of desire, inability to orgasm, delayed orgasm, premature ejaculation and inability to become erect. Often, the cause is physical in nature; a host of underlying health conditions can negatively impact the penis's ability to do its thing. Doctors generally seek out a physical source for sexual dysfunction first. If none is identified, they will likely begin considering potential psychological issues. Since sexual activity is an important part of both overall well-being for most men and of penis health, it's important for those affected with sexual dysfunction to seek treatment.
Some common psychological factors that may impair sexual function include depression, anxiety and stress. But there are other causes potentially related to past trauma or relationship troubles that men should be aware of. Below, men can learn about two forms of sexual dysfunction that may be rooted in the past or related to present fears that need to be addressed.
Male Orgasmic Disorder
Men with male orgasmic disorder either take a very long time to achieve orgasm during sexual contact or are unable to altogether. In order to count as a psychological disorder, this sexual dysfunction has to cause a man significant distress. Many men with the condition feel anxiety, guilt or shame around their orgasm difficulties.
Male orgasmic disorder, when psychologically rooted, can be caused by common depression, anxiety and stress. Other precipitating psychological factors include:
- Relationship issues with a particular sexual partner
- Past trauma involving sex, such as rape or sexual abuse
- An upbringing heavy on sexual taboos
- Fear of getting a partner pregnant
- Fear of catching a sexually transmitted infection
Treating these deep-rooted problems is best done with the help of a trained therapist. Relationship counseling may help couples who are having issues. A therapist can also help men work through fears, guilt and shame that may exist around sex.
Another method of treatment involves a form of sex therapy in which a couple takes steps toward release during intercourse. The couple starts by working toward the man achieving orgasm with his partner from non-penetration; then, they work on his ability to release on the outside of the vagina (or buttocks); finally, they work up to finishing internally.
Sexual Aversion Disorder
Sexual aversion disorder is more than a lack of desire to have sex. The latter can occur for several reasons, from low levels of testosterone to simply being tired. When a man has sexual aversion disorder, his lack of desire is bound up with negative emotions about genital contact, such as disgust, shame or guilt. Men with the condition may suffer panic attacks or high levels of anxiety when in sexual situations.
This condition may be a lifelong phenomenon or may occur after a traumatic incident. It might manifest consistently with all potential sexual partners, or be limited to one or some. The psychological causes of sexual aversion disorder are mostly the same as those for male orgasmic disorder: relationship problems, cultural taboos and traumatic events such as sexual abuse. Psychotherapy and couples counseling are usual methods of treatment.
Getting in Touch with the Penis
While pursuing therapy, men with one of the above conditions might want to take some time to get in touch with their penises in an effort to build comfort with their bodies. At the same time, they can improve overall organ health by applying a penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). While certainly not a treatment for deep-seated psychological issues around sex, applying the lotion every day can get a man used to regular touch. The product also contains Shea butter and vitamin E, which keep the skin smooth and soft, making it more inviting.
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Masturbation Mood: Songs About Self-Pleasuring
Masturbation is a popular entertainment option the world over, so it's perhaps not surprising that this activity has been inspirational to a number of musical performers. Songs about self-love are not as numerous as those about romantic, profane or even brotherly love, but it's a suitable subject for musical exploration. As such, these songs can provide an appropriate soundtrack for a man's masturbatory activities. Regular masturbation requires appropriate penis care, of course, so all are advised to not get too carried away by the beat of the music and start beating the meat too fiercely.
Beginnings
No one knows who wrote the first song about masturbation. Was it a caveman made overly excited at the sight of his neighbor's new tight tiger skin thong? Did the ancient Greeks write them for their infamous satyr plays, which featured men with gigantic prosthetic penises? Did medieval troubadours create tunes about the lonely pleasures of the road?
The songs
Whatever the case, the advent of rock music opened up the door for songs that were more frankly sexual than the pop music of previous generations. There have since been dozens of songs that have touched on, mentioned, or been primarily concerned with masturbation. A few of the more noteworthy examples include:
- "My Ding-a-Ling." Early R&B rocker Chuck Berry had numerous songs that hit number one on the R&B charts, including "Maybelline" and "Johnny B. Goode." But only the novelty tune "My Ding-a-Ling" made it to the very top of the pop charts. With lyrics about "You'd catch me playing with my ding-a-ling," it's hard to argue that this song is a paean to self-pleasuring.
- "Pictures of Lily." Pete Townshend's lyrics don't specifically mention playing with oneself, but he has admitted in interviews that this is the real subject. The Who's recording makes it clear that the pictures of this girl helped the singer sleep at night from the relaxing effects of shooting a load off.
- "Dancing with Myself." Billy Idol could simply be singing about solo dancing - but when he talks about waiting so long for his "love vibration," is there any doubt what the real activity is?
- "Captain Jack." Billy Joel may be an incredibly successful singer-songwriter, but even he had lonely teen-age years when, as he blatantly says, "you just sit at home and masturbate." And why not? A release is a release.
- "Longview." Green Day gained widespread attention with this song, which discusses the amount of masturbating a guy does when he's got nothing better to do.
- "Girls of Porn." One of the raunchiest songs on this list, the Mr. Bungle contribution is all about how a guy can't keep his hands off his junk when he's tempted by pictures of naked women posing suggestively. Not many guys would disagree.
- "Turning Japanese." This incredibly catchy new wave ditty makes the rather insulting and insensitive equation between masturbation and being Japanese. But the nervous energy that runs through the song captures the feeling of a guy manipulating his organ in search of self-satisfaction.
By the way, in case anyone suspects that only male performers sing about self-pleasuring, don't forget Cindy Lauper's "She Bop" (and its message about messing with the danger zone) or the DiVinyls' more blatant "I Touch Myself."
The list of masturbation songs could go on quite a bit longer, with the likes of "The Stroke" by Billy Squier or "Orgasm Addict" by the Buzzcocks. Whatever songs a guy may use to influence his solo outings, he needs to make sure he is using a first-class penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to keep his tool in good health. It's essential that the crème contains a neuroprotective ingredient such as acetyl L-carnitine to help with peripheral nerve damage that may occur from overuse (or over-aggressive use) while masturbating. The best crème will also include vitamin D, which has been proven effective at fighting diseases while enabling cell functionality - a dual function that is vital to penis health.
Beginnings
No one knows who wrote the first song about masturbation. Was it a caveman made overly excited at the sight of his neighbor's new tight tiger skin thong? Did the ancient Greeks write them for their infamous satyr plays, which featured men with gigantic prosthetic penises? Did medieval troubadours create tunes about the lonely pleasures of the road?
The songs
Whatever the case, the advent of rock music opened up the door for songs that were more frankly sexual than the pop music of previous generations. There have since been dozens of songs that have touched on, mentioned, or been primarily concerned with masturbation. A few of the more noteworthy examples include:
- "My Ding-a-Ling." Early R&B rocker Chuck Berry had numerous songs that hit number one on the R&B charts, including "Maybelline" and "Johnny B. Goode." But only the novelty tune "My Ding-a-Ling" made it to the very top of the pop charts. With lyrics about "You'd catch me playing with my ding-a-ling," it's hard to argue that this song is a paean to self-pleasuring.
- "Pictures of Lily." Pete Townshend's lyrics don't specifically mention playing with oneself, but he has admitted in interviews that this is the real subject. The Who's recording makes it clear that the pictures of this girl helped the singer sleep at night from the relaxing effects of shooting a load off.
- "Dancing with Myself." Billy Idol could simply be singing about solo dancing - but when he talks about waiting so long for his "love vibration," is there any doubt what the real activity is?
- "Captain Jack." Billy Joel may be an incredibly successful singer-songwriter, but even he had lonely teen-age years when, as he blatantly says, "you just sit at home and masturbate." And why not? A release is a release.
- "Longview." Green Day gained widespread attention with this song, which discusses the amount of masturbating a guy does when he's got nothing better to do.
- "Girls of Porn." One of the raunchiest songs on this list, the Mr. Bungle contribution is all about how a guy can't keep his hands off his junk when he's tempted by pictures of naked women posing suggestively. Not many guys would disagree.
- "Turning Japanese." This incredibly catchy new wave ditty makes the rather insulting and insensitive equation between masturbation and being Japanese. But the nervous energy that runs through the song captures the feeling of a guy manipulating his organ in search of self-satisfaction.
By the way, in case anyone suspects that only male performers sing about self-pleasuring, don't forget Cindy Lauper's "She Bop" (and its message about messing with the danger zone) or the DiVinyls' more blatant "I Touch Myself."
The list of masturbation songs could go on quite a bit longer, with the likes of "The Stroke" by Billy Squier or "Orgasm Addict" by the Buzzcocks. Whatever songs a guy may use to influence his solo outings, he needs to make sure he is using a first-class penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to keep his tool in good health. It's essential that the crème contains a neuroprotective ingredient such as acetyl L-carnitine to help with peripheral nerve damage that may occur from overuse (or over-aggressive use) while masturbating. The best crème will also include vitamin D, which has been proven effective at fighting diseases while enabling cell functionality - a dual function that is vital to penis health.
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